What is your favorite summer activity? Camping, going on a picnic, or to the lake, riding bikes or something else? Mine is always hosting or attending a BBQ.
There is just something about having good friends around you. Being about to relax and enjoy each other’s company. I treasure watching the kids playing in the yard–whether they are battling with water guns, chasing each other or playing in the sprinkler. It’s all so simple, and makes me so happy.
I equate the experience to when I saw my first fireflies during a warm summer evening decades ago. I realized it was special and I wanted it to last. And if it couldn’t last forever, I hoped it would happen again. That’s what summer BBQs are for me. They are one of those special moments I look forward to every year.
What summer activity does your family enjoy? Which of summer’s simple pleasures are special for you?
One of my favorite parts of summer is having or going to a summer BBQ. Having good food while communing with good friends makes it something special.
As I watched the kids playing in the backyard, running around and laughing at the new game they created, I was struck with memories of my own childhood. Simpler times, where friendship and joy seemed easier to come by. It was living in the moment and recognizing the specialness of an occasion without anyone having to tell you so. As parents we can get caught up in trying to create great memories for our children. Buying them a special toy, planning that one-of-a-kind party, or taking them on a trip that stretches the budget. All are great, but require preparation and lack spontaneity. I’m reminded that its the simple things, like being together and enjoying each others company regardless of the time or place, that makes the difference, not the where or anything else.
The BBQs of my childhood were special, and I believe the BBQs my children attend will be special memories for them.
It was a good reminder for me. Keep it simple, and enjoy.