What are your dreams for your child?
I’m inspired by Martin Luther King, Jr’s dream for his:
“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.
As a teenager I questioned my parents on why they had had kids — the world is a tough place, why would you want to bring someone into it? My dad said, “To leave the world a better place. You want your children to do better than you did.” I got it. Wanting your child to be a better person, a better contributor to the world than you are is a lofty goal. It is my dad’s dream for his own children, and I’m hoping to achieve it with my own.
It got me thinking about what my dreams are for my own children. I want them to be a better person than I am. I want them to contribute in a more meaningful way. But my dreams going even further. I too want them to live in a country where they are not judged by their outward appearance (and not judge others by their’s), but by the content of their character. I want them to appreciate the beauty all around them, even in the most common places; to care for others, to be empathic, understanding and giving; and to experience as much joy in their life as possible.
As a parent, I have to evaluate what I’m doing to make the dreams I have for my boys a reality. I can be open about my dreams with my children, and try to get them to see the benefit of the dreams I have for them, but ultimately they will have to decide which of my dreams they want adopt and make their reality.
What dreams to you have for your child?
Thank you, Martin Luther King, Jr., for your inspiring words.